62 million hits

It's not surprising to me that there is a website that teaches you how to drug and rape women. It's not surprising to me that there has been 62 million hits on that website.

It's not surprising to me, because most men don't seem to know what to do with a strong woman right now. A woman who is not easily duped. A woman who knows who she is, what she wants and where her power is.

Increasingly I see women like this all around me. Empowered. Motivated. Often more employed and more financially literate than the men. What is going on? I see a growing number of emasculated man babies, raging at the wrong arguments. Being led down red pill tunnels of hyper masculinity, of theoretical bullshit, of justification for bad behaviour, and of adopting narratives that we should have left 100 years in the past. They pat each other on the back in rooms we aren't in.

How the fuck have people like Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, and the rest been given an audience? How are they not ridiculed into irrelevance?

The pendulum has swung my friends.

It has swung so far that we are close to having equal legal rights, the ability to have a bank account, own a business, own a home.. without a man. All of this in the last hundred years. Oh I'm sorry I forgot, we still don't have control over our own bodies, we still get paid less, promoted less, and only listened to if we are skinny and wearing makeup. I forgot. I lost some weight and more men listen to me now, how fucked is that?

And so this is the reaction, to women clawing towards the light, to women lifting themselves up and having relevance - without a man actually.

Men who can only think about drugging us, about raping us and dominating us, to make themselves feel better. To right the balance of the pendulum swing which they perceive - takes their power away.

And you think this is some kind of evil dastardly men. Surely not men you know, not men you are. But it's not.. honestly, it's the average man. The 'normal' man. The 'quiet' man. It's everyman, and the outliers are the ones who do not think and behave in this way - they are now the rarity.

They are busy raising children, and marvelling at their women... But there are millions of men who are not in this position. Who live alone in a prison of their own mind, plotting a revenge they don't deserve, for problems of their own making.

This is why I'm not on dating apps.

This is why I only date men that cross my path organically. And even then in the last few years, hardly at all. I reach for connection, and they disappear like Homer in the bushes. I offer adventure, and it's too threatening. I offer truth, directness and it's too scary.

Men do not feel safe in vulnerability.

Men think stoicism is strength, but it is weakness. Hiding your true feelings, is weakness. This is an absolute travesty for the entire world. For the planet. For the children. And for us. Stoic men make me very sad.

Hilarious, that people are turning back to God. God won't help us my friends. It's the men, it's the men we need to call in, it's the men we need to keep accountable, it's the men we need to break down harmful stereotypes and allow them to cry and rage. Then channel their power into something useful. Not into 62 million hits which sells an illusion that they are powerful when they are nothing but weak. Because weak men dominate ..

Strong men protect. Defend.

Strong men stand up for what's right.

These are the men I'm drawn to.

These are the men who will lead the world. Men who will fight each other, for what's right.

To every man who is speaking out about this, who's standing up to his mates... In intimate circles, these hardest battles are fought.

To every man willing to change the narrative with his actions.. For his daughters, for his friends, for whatever his mother went through..

Thankyou 🖤

Thank you.

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